Often times couples are at different places due to work or school and can not be with each other on a regular basis. While most people fear that long distance will drift them apart and chooses step back from perusing a relationship, there are others who want to but do not know the right ways to keep it going.
Here are some tips on long distance so you never have to feel alone or lonely again!
1. Try to Communicate Regularly
Who says communication can only happen face to face and when your partner is with you? With the current technology, it's very easy to connect with people from different parts of the world. Having regular talks and simple "good night" and "good morning"s will bring both parties more closer and connected even if they are far apart in distance. This can also be used in advantage to solve any serious problems that need to be clarified such as misunderstandings and arguments using video calls.
2. Do Things Together
Have dates and hang out with each other as normal. Ask for opinions and ideas, do something together. While both of you are not physically present use video chats to show the other person outfits your buying, ask for their opinion on it and chat. Have fun just like a real date. Do different activities together. Such as watch a movie at the same time and share your comments, play a game together as pairs, have a sport match by tracking scores and see who wins in the end.
3. Visit Each Other
This one requires a bit of planing but its fairly easy if you guys are organized and communicate well. Establish a plan where the two of you are either on holiday or long breaks and set dates to visit one another by taking turns and whenever continent. Try to keep a balanced schedule so that none of you feel overwhelmed.
4. Don't Hide Anything!
This one is important in all relationships. Its not good to keep secrets of any feelings or problems from your significant other. Keep a open and up to date connection so that they know what you are up to and how you feel to make the right choices. If anything is not told at the moment, eventually they will find out and it might not turn out as well. So tell them everything that is important for them to know right as it happen.
5. Send Surprises
Well its important to sent your partner gifts, its even better to give them a surprise once in a while. It shows that even if the both of you are busy in different parts of the world, you are still thinking about him/her in you daily life. It can bring heartwarming feelings.
6. Trust and Understanding
Trust is important in any form of relationship. You should be comfortable and is able to trust your partner in his/her actions. Believe who they are and talk about things that seem suspicious right away. It might not be a big deal. This goes with understanding as well, you should know how your partner is. Enough to know his regular actions and core values so that you won't be tricked by other people or circumstances that come up in the future.
With the above 6 tips helping you out, you will be sure that it all is done properly the relationship will be maintained. Good Luck and love strong!
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